Man Seeks New Lover on TV Show After Killing Two Others
ISTANBUL (Reuters) – A man who appeared on a Turkish television dating show in search of a new partner shocked the audience by revealing he had murdered his former wife and a former lover.
Sefer Calinak, 62, told Flash TV’s “Luck of the Draw” he had served prison sentences for each of the murders and had been released under an amnesty program.
“I’m an honest person looking for a new wife,” he told the show, saying he killed his first wife because he was “irritated” by her behavior and murdered a subsequent partner because he thought she was after his money.
Calinak was asked to leave the show by the host, prompting applause from the studio audience, in an episode which made headlines in Turkish newspapers.
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When you start having more bad days than good, that’s a wrap. Your significant other is dependent on you to be happy or entertained. When they tell “half-truths” — they tell you the part of the story that answers your question but leave out the part that would “make you upset.” They consistently make you their last priority, or simply an afterthought. Conversely, if you become their only priority and everything else is an afterthought. They password protect everything. Keeping score is a behavior that will quickly unravel any relationship. When she/he puts you down in front of others. Using ultimatums to get their way instead of compromising. Any time the relationship needs to be kept secret, there is a problem in there somewhere. Both of you must be comfortable doing separate things in the same room. When they don’t want you to be friends with their friends, or vice versa. In the beginning stages, they constantly complain about their ex. It isn’t easy to build a new relationship on the ashes of an old one. You text your lover and never really get a response in a reasonable amount of time, but when they are with you, they are constantly on their phone. All of your friends, or your trusted family members, hate your boyfriend/girlfriend. They never apologize or take responsibility for bad behavior.
